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10 Easy ways to avoid Wedding Vendor Disasters!

Start w/ the Basics

OK, you are ready to start the process of planning your wedding. Before you start scouting wedding vendors, there is a list of must-haves:

Wedding date


Type of venue (Indoor/Outdoor)

This list assumes you have already decided on a particular wedding venue, but if you have not, look at our previous blog on picking wedding venues.

Now you will need to know if vendors are available on your date (if they're not, fall out of love with the vendor and move on), can travel to your wedding location, and their pricing is within your budget's range. These necessary details should be firmly set before you start contacting wedding pros.

Search & Research

Once you feel comfortable with your date, budget, and venue, you can start researching vendors in your area. When it comes to finding wedding vendors, you have a few options. Websites like the wedding wire allow you to search for vendors quickly and easily based on your location.

Aside from searching online, you can also attend wedding shows where you can meet a lot of vendors in person. There's also word of mouth, talking to recently-married friends and family members to get their recommendations. You might also want to check out vendors on social media to better understand their personalities.

Check out Reviews

No matter how you initially research wedding vendors, it's a good idea to cross-reference with online reviews. Reviews often provide insight that you might not get from looking at a vendor's website or meeting them at a wedding expo. Take note not only of the good reviews but how a vendor responds to not-so-great ones. A vendor doesn't have to have completely perfect reviews to be a good fit for your wedding.

Slim the list

You could probably come up with a list of dozens of wedding vendors who sound impressive, but for your own sanity, don't reach out to too many. We recommend narrowing your list to three or four vendors in each category (photographers, florists, etc.) to make that initial contact with. You can always reach out to more if none of your initial picks work out.

Contact Vendors

Making that first contact with a wedding vendor can be a little tricky. There are three essential pieces of information you'll want to find out: If the vendor is available on your date, can travel to your location, and their package pricing is within your budget. Use this template for your initial message.

Hi [vendor name],

My name is [your name], and I found you on [mention where you found the photographer, whether on a website, at a wedding expo, etc.]. I am curious to more about your wedding services. I am getting married on [your wedding date] at [your wedding venue] and wanted to check your availability and receive any information on your packages and pricing.

Thank you!

[Your name and contact information]

The vendor should get back to you quickly—within a business day or so—or provide a reason why they aren't available (vacation, travel, etc.). Set up an in-person meeting if you hear back and like what you see (the vendor is available on your date, the pricing is within range).

Have a list of questions

The in-person meeting with a vendor is crucial. Not only do you want your vendors to be creative and talented, but you'll also want to find people you actually like and trust. While meeting in person is preferred, a Zoom chat is a great alternative.

Come prepared with a list of questions, and don't be afraid to bring up any concerns. You're spending a lot of money here, and you must be comfortable with your decision-making. If you're concerned about the vendor's pricing, now is the time to be upfront about your own budget and (politely) see if any adjustments can be made to a vendor's package. They may very well say no, but it's better to ask upfront rather than after a contract has been drawn up.

Contract Time

Once you've selected the wedding vendor you'd like to hire, it's time to get a contract. Make sure you read the contract carefully before signing and have others read it as well. If you're confused or concerned about any detail in the contract (especially the payment plan or any additional fees), don't be afraid to ask. You should be 100 percent happy with the arrangement before signing and moving forward with a particular wedding vendor.


Signing a vendor contract marks the start of your official working relationship with a wedding pro. Even if your wedding is months (or years!) away, make sure you're aware of what the next steps are. When should you meet with this particular vendor again, whether it's for a tasting, planning session, engagement shoot, etc.? Also, what is the best way to communicate with this particular vendor—is email, phone, or text best?

Communicate Often

If you've been communicating with a wedding vendor and decide against hiring them, do not (we repeat, do not) ghost them. They may be holding a date for you and potentially turning down other clients to keep it reserved. Let them know (politely and promptly) that you've decided to go in a different direction.

Get recommendations.

Your wedding will run even more smoothly if your vendors work well together. Don't be shy about asking your vendors for recommendations in different categories. If you like a particular vendor's style, likely, they frequently work with others who have similar personalities. For example, perhaps your photographer can recommend a videographer they work with often. Or a florist can recommend a lighting designer whose work they admire. Of course, planners are the ultimate pros at connecting couples with wedding pros. Just don't forget to check those vendor reviews.

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